my fren yvonne posted it up on friendster's bulletin. i tink its so true. read on!


Ten ways you can unwittingly lead a man
on (Men often believe you're flirting
with them even when you're not).

1. Putting one more kiss at the end of
an email than he did. Women are
naturally friendly - if flirting is a
mountain, they're always walking in the
lower foothills. But men want to get to
the peak as soon as possible. Your extra
'x' was done without thinking. He
assumes you're starting an auction of
kisses that will end up with the two of
you in bed.

2. Saying you like his shirt. The
average man doesn't notice clothes - if
you notice his, he'll think it's because
you want to see them on your bedroom floor.

3. Asking questions about his
girlfriend. You're just being nosy about
his love life. He thinks you want a
walk-on part in it.

4. Talking about your own relationship
prob lems. You find it easy to discuss
these things. Men don't, so he'll
imagine that you're auditioning
repla cements for your boyfriend.

5. Approaching him at a party. Men see
starting a conversation as the first
stage of seduction. They can't
understand why you'd do it just to be
friendly.
< BR>6. Touching his arm as you talk. Women
are more tactile than men - they forget
that testosterone can be brought to the
boil by the merest brush of a female hand.

7. Teasing him. You're doing it simply
because you can, and it amuses you. He
sees it as an early phase of the mating
ritual.

8. Ignoring a call on your mobile when
you're with him. You hit 'divert'
because it's your boss and you don't
want to talk to her - but the man's ego
tells him you're captivated by his witty
conversatio n.

9. Re-applying your make-up. A fresh
coat of lip-gloss makes you feel good
about yourself. He thinks it's being
done to attract him.

10. Dancing with him. It's an Abba
record - you'd dance with the nearest
hat-stand - but your partner in boogie
assumes that you want his body.

Of course, all these are things you
might do if you are really flirting. But
even if you're not, don't worry too much
- wouldn't life be boring if you
couldn't laugh at men?